After all
the sound and fury about Valentine’s Day, we shouldn’t be surprised if the next
target is the International Women’s Day.
We’ll be told we shouldn’t be celebrating it because it’s not a part of
Indian tradition (whatever that is) and that it is a western import. Another
argument could be that it’s meaningless - celebrating one day does not change
the status of women and so on.
So,
why should we celebrate International Women’s Day? First, because it comes to us with a history
of struggle, resistance and protest - all of which have formed the basis of the
women’s movement worldwide.
This
history represents the struggle of women workers in factories who struck work
and demanded their rights. Such strikes
have empowered working people the world over. Today, in the face of
globalization and its blatant exploitation of women’s labour, it becomes all
the more important to remember the struggle of working women that marks
International Women’s Day.
It’s
also a day women can claim to be their own.
Time and again, women all over the world have talked about utilizing
this day to establish their centrality and importance in society. What if,
women all over the world took this day off from their various tasks? What if they refused to work at homes,
offices and factories or to provide sexual services? What if they simply said
NO! Who would draw the water, feed the
children, cook and clean? Everything, but everything, would come to a standstill.
If
men rise to the occasion to take on these tasks, then, the purpose would be
served for it’s not until they do these tasks that men will realize, what doing
them means. It is true that like other similar days, weeks and years, this one
too may have become just another piece of window-dressing. It’s also true that
the concept of International Women’s Day may be one that has not reached far
and wide, at least in countries like ours.
But that’s no reason for us to give up.
It’s
precisely because activists want to reach out to as wide an audience as
possible, that celebrations for International Women’s Day now take place all
over - in resettlement colonies, villages, towns and cities. These celebrations may be on a small scale,
but for women they carry a deep and profound meaning. It’s a day on which they realize that
thousands of other women share their thoughts and feelings. As long as women can define their importance
in society and put a claim on this importance on their own, it does not matter
if its origin lies elsewhere.
In
the last few years, Dalit women have organized and begun to celebrate another
day - December 25 as Bharatiya Mahila Day.
They do not reject International Women’s Day, but they’ve added this one
to it.
If
we can find 363 other similar reasons and occasions for celebrating this day,
we can walk with the men and be treated as their equals through the whole
year. Why not then, begin with a search
for 363 similar reasons as our theme for the next “Women’s Day” to conquer male
chauvinism? The celebration would last a year long, and turn into a lifelong
celebration!
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