Shobha was feeling
totally downcast during the long drive through the countryside. It was not
because of the pot holes in the route.
She was feeling deeply hurt. There was throbbing pain inside her.
'Why is Ramesh treating me so shabbily?' She grieved.
They had stopped at the supermarket in the city to buy
Complan and Boost for Amma (her mother-in-law). While waiting at the billing
counter, she had picked up two magazines from the magazine rack and placed them
in the basket along with the other items.
Ramesh simply gestured to her with a slight motion of the head and a
quick glare at her, ordering nonverbally to keep them back on the rack.
What else to do but swallow her pride !
No freedom, whatsoever, even to make her own choice.
A slave, a veritable slave !
Gloomily she glanced at the country scene.
'Every thing is fast changing, she thought. In her teens,
it was her passion to travel through the country side. The road side used to the lined with shacks and
thatched houses in the past. Men and
women, sheep and cattle, gutters and puddles, ponds and canals elsewhere. Those
were a part of the rustic setting she enjoyed.
Her imagination used to run riot. Her dreams were fascinating with hen
coops, flocks of ducks, swinging, their backs, water bodies and ponds in the
rustic landscape. Mud and mire on their scanty dress, grime on their body! 'Fantastic!
Shobha used to think in her girlhood. She thought that kind of living
was real living, living close to earth, one with nature! She did not bother then to think if those
people were happy with their lifestyle, whether it gave them real joy, the joy
which she envied, the joy she coveted. The only thought she nursed along the
years was that they had freedom, nothing restrained them. There was no taboo;
so she imagined! She longed to live like
one of them; she dreamt of living in a shack!
It was her habit to weave a tapestry of her life in the rural setting.
The rough journeying through the country road always fascinated her.
Over the years the country life changed. Paddy fields and
water bodies vanished. Concrete jungle met every eye. No more broken benches or sagging
coir-woven-cots were to be seen in the front yard of the shacks. Molded plastic
chairs and sofa sets were there in the portico of garishly painted RCC
structures which they called their homes. No human anywhere to trigger her
dreams. Perhaps, they were indoors, eyes glued to the television serial.
Nothing was there to enliven her dreams, nothing colorful enough to delight
her!.
'After all, why do I need colors how? I have lost my
dreams; I don't need colors any more!
Shobha felt more sad and bitter. She recalled the lovely days of her
girlhood. Full of fun! Summer holidays
were spent in Achan's (father) ancestral home. Only casual visits were made to
Amma's (mother) home. Children enjoyed
their stay in those heritage homes. Something regal about the lifestyle; the
elders were duly held in high esteem; what fun and frolic the children had in
the rambling household! When the
holidays ended, they departed with the pain of ending the joyous days! Playing hide and seek and enjoying country
games and sports. Children didn't bother to know the philosophy of heritage,
their customs and traditions. All that mattered was that they could enjoy life
with an abandon during their holidays.
Shobha remembered how she awaited the trips to Amma's
heritage home. Like everyone, else, she knew that she was Ramesh's bride-to-be.
It was customary for him to marry his aunt's daughter. Ramesh had always been smart enough to get
things done his way by falsely quoting her. If she ever innocently blurted out
the truth or simply denied it, Ramesh would glare at her; shut her up with a
wringing of her ear. Acha, Shobha wants to see Gemini Circus'. Ramesh would play with his father.
Uncle would 'hmm' in agreement because of Sobha and off
would the children go to watch circus. Cunning Ramesh! So many were his cunning projects in those
days.
'Even today he has nothing but projects!'. Shobha thought with much disgust.
She knew that even today he is making use of her
'influence' to his advantage.
Shameless creature!
For the sake of monetary gain he would stoop to any level
and utilize her 'charms'.
His ways are too disgusting to share with others.
'Does he not realize that, I have my own wishes, my own opinions?' Shobha wondered. It is long since she has
stopped expressing her opinions, sharing her views.
'Many a time, he had insulted me with contempluous
outbursts, 'foolish woman'. I have no
voice. I have only a face. I am a smiling face!
I need to smile to 'influence' people for his projects. Now-a-days I
have no likings.
I don't even have any favorite color.
I dress up with what Ramesh chooses.
Dressing up!
It is not as 'I' that I accompany him. I have lost
myself. It is not me. It is only a
'she', a gender significance!.
In the career guidance class, I had decided to join the
professional course, the Guru had recommended. That 'dream' was shattered by
Achan (father) in the wedlock with Ramesh as had been customarily arranged.
There was no choice. I had no voice. Those were days when I won the prize year
after year for reading the largest number of books and submitting excellent
brief of each book. Today even the scent of fresh pages is alien to me'. Shobha recalled remorsefully.
The car came to a halt at the courtyard of Ramesh's
heritage home. Shobha opened the door and stepped out mechanically, her
feelings deplete.
'Ah, you’ve reached here before us!'
Ramesh walked briskly towards the men who were formally
dressed in suit. Shobha put on a pleasant expression. With a demure smile, she
followed Ramesh. He introduced his wife to the guests, who rose from their
seats in the portico and came forward.
'Mr.... meet my wife, Shobha'. The guests should be charmed
by her beauty. She knew very well what Ramesh expected of her.
Smile bewitchingly. Greet each one in the group and make
them feel at home.
After casting her spell on them with her charming ways, it
would be her duty to convince Amma and make her concede to the proposal.
They are tourism promoters. The heritage home in being
signed up for home-stay. These men are Ramesh's prospective partners in his
mega project in the city. The heritage home needs to be modernized to their
liking for home-stay. For housekeeping and cooking they would engage the
personnel qualified for hospitality management.
'Is Ramesh planning to send me over here under some
pretext, I wonder’ Shobha grieved as she explained the project to Amma.
She felt sorry for Amma. Yet she camouflaged her words with
much love and put on her best manners to her mother in law who, of course, was
also her aunt.
'Amma, you will have to come with us to the city. Not
immediately. Only when the documentation is completed and the contract finalized’.
Ramesh busied himself to entertain the guests and
deliberately checked Amma from raising a protest or even expressing her opinion
about the antiquity of the heritage home and its sanctity. Her views were
chocked up by his earnest efforts to make the guests feel pleased with the
traditional practice at the ancestral home in receiving guests in style.
Shobha could feel Amma's anguish. How could Ramesh do this
to Amma!. She became part of this
wonderful heritage as a fourteen year old girl, when she crossed the threshold
solemnly as uncle's bride. A noble lady who fed and nurtured nieces and nephews
along with her own children in the interiors of this sprawling heritage home!
Her heritage.
Shobha struggled to stifle her grief.
Amma is being uprooted from her natural habitat, her home
during the long, long decades.
Being transplanted!
Is it repotting? To an alien ground! For Ramesh's success uprooting is inevitable.
Relationship does not have significance on the road to success.
Like Sobha, Amma is only a glorified slave.
[LEELA MARY KOSHY]
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