I remember the first day me and my friends
were roaming through the labyrinth streets of the old city Cairo, walking
through different levels, listening to the fascinating stories of decades of
war, the fertile land on the banks of Nile, the pyramids, the Coptic churches -
one of us commented – “Everything here seems to only celebrate death!” The next
day we went to visit the pyramids in the middle of the desert. Standing in
front of one of the world’s ancient wonders - the grand structures built with
stone rising like a prayer towards the sun – we realized our mistake! The
pyramids were indeed built for the dead – but death was thought of as a hiatus
– not a termination. So they stocked the tombs with all that was thought
necessary to lead a life – grains, water, clothes, wine – along with a special
boat that was buried next to the pyramid – a boat that the dead soul would use
to float back to life. To them, death was like the night of life. Just as the
sun sets at the end of a day only to rise the next morning – death was thought
of as a transition from one life to another.
Since the dawn of civilization, humans have grappled with the
fury of nature for bare survival. Initially when they could not understand it
they feared it, worshipped it – praying for peace and calm. But with time as
they came to understand the patterns that governed nature, they tried to tame
it through science and engineering - death is perhaps still an aspect of life
that they have not been able to come to terms with completely. Does a human
being cease to exist when the body ceases to exist? A difficult question which
has no single answer. A human being continues to exist after death through the
genes of ancestors, and also through his or her achievements and creativity. Science does have an answer to what happens to the body – but
human existence is not about the corporal existence alone. There is no credible
evidence about what awaits humans after death.
The intrigue of the unknown gives birth to both fear and
creativity. All societies perform a set of rites to pay respect to the departed
soul after death. The near and dear ones of the deceased get consolation from
these rites that their beloved will be fine in another world – a world which
may or may not exist outside our imagination. The most interesting aspect of
this belief is that while no one has definitely been able to give an exact and
credible description of an after-world – no one has been able to prove it
beyond doubt also that death is indeed a termination of both body and soul.
Keeping a day aside for the departed souls is a common
phenomenon across religions - “Bhut Chaturdashi,” “All Saint’s Day” “Halloween”
or “All Hallows Day” – are all dedicated to the remembrance of the departed
souls. Interestingly, all these days come close to one another – at the
onset of Autumn – when the days start getting cold and short – night descends
early. Death and darkness have always been traditionally linked.
Lighting candles and lamps to scare off the evil spirits during
these festivals is a common phenomenon observed across the world. Offering
homage to the dead and also request their blessings for a peaceful and
prosperous life is a mixture of gratefulness, reverence and fear. Ignorance
also increases the stature of a departed soul. As soon as a mere mortal becomes
a spirit, he or she is ascribed the power of a fortune-teller – one who should
be able to predict our future.
While increasing mechanization of different aspects of human
lives have changed the day to day existence of generations in substantive ways,
it is interesting to observe that customs related to death are surprisingly
unchanged. Death reminds us of the transience of life. Till the inevitability
of death can be definitively conquered, the uncertainty of life after death
will rule human imagination. There will be rituals and practices to understand
and overcome it. The human ear will be eager to hear about para-normal
experiences and near-death experiences. I don’t see any dearth of interest in
planchets and other mechanisms for communicating with the dead or in ghosts and
spirits till death can be deciphered.
[LIPIKA
DEY]